Life, 1909-04-22 · page 20 of 32
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This is an advice column satirizing how young women (and men) misuse the word "temperament" as an excuse for bad behavior. The accompanying cartoon shows a woman's exaggerated facial expression—depicting the theatrical dramatics associated with claiming "temperament." Fairfax argues that "temperament" has become a euphemism for lack of self-control. She catalogs examples: servants breaking dishes, girls destroying furniture when denied outings, married people justifying affairs, opera singers canceling performances. The column warns young women especially: men claiming they "lack temperament" are often predatory ("affinity hunters") using flattery as a trap. The piece reflects early-20th-century anxieties about women's independence and respectability. Fairfax redefines "temperament" sarcastically as merely "a modern word meaning lack of self-control," urging women to recognize when this flattery masks manipulation or genuine character flaw.
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oe bi Ie) il oa Temper and Temperament BY BEATRICE FAIRFAX When Bridget was mildly requested To work on her afternoon out, She mumbled and muttered and scolded and spluttered, And rattled the dishes about. Finally, one of the little group of school girls ran away with a married man, and in the ex- cited twittering that followed I learned that it was her great amount of temperament that had prompted her escapade. And, like Kipling's soldier man, “I learned about temperament from and more about temperament, until T have eve cluded that the free translation given the word by the average person makes it a menace 1 morals and manners. The married man who finds his affinity in as. other man’s wife or a young girl excus's bin self on the score of temperament. The married woman who runs away with neighbor's husband is the victim of her su abundant temperament. The young girl who allows men to treat be She splintered the Sévres and Dresden And littered the neighbor's back lot With bits of cut glass, till we murmured: What a terrible temper she’s got!" her.” When Muriel’s mother forbade her To go to the Mayflower Ball, She flounced up the stair, and proceeded to tear The pictures and prints from the wall. She cuffed her astonished small brother With a hand that was harsh and ungentle, And we murmured, full sad: “It is really too bad, Poor girl, she is so temperamental !”” What is temperament? When I was a young girl I used to listen en- to people who talked about their “tem- nt.” All my girl friends would shake avely at_me and lament that I lacked that most desirable quality. Never a group of girls got together but what they talked about temperament. According to all accounts, they one and all possessed it to an tonishing degree. And always I had to sit silently without the charmed circle, because I could contribute no valuable opinions. THE SYMPATHO COX Ever since then I have been learning more ERSATIONAL over-familiarly is half-ashamed of her lchavior, but thoroughly proud of what she cons temperament The prima donna who sulks and refuses » appear at the last moment is supposed to bei creature of temperament. So she is, but oa of the two first syllables of the word. The Century Dictionary defines tempers as “that individual peculiarity of physical org zation by which the manner, acting, fe thinking of every person is perma fected.” If I could write ently dictionary T would de temperament as a “modern word meaning | of self-control."” Don't feel badly if. y friends tell you that you lack temperament may be possible that the brain cell labelled “ perament ” has been preempted by self-contni and common sense Especially if you are a young girl, and so man tells you that you lack temperament, thankful that as far as he is concerned you és That man needs watching, for the chances ar that he is an affinity hunter, and gentlemen ci that type bait their traps with temperament Laven (Continued on page 563) hursday, simultaneously in the United States, Great Britain, Canada and British Possessions. | $5.00 a year in advance. Additional postage to foreign countries in the Postal Union. $1.04 a year? to Canada, $2 cents. Single current copies, 10 cents. 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