Life — January 4, 1906 — page 5: what you’re looking at

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# "Don't Be Thoughtless" This cartoon satirizes gender relations and etiquette in early 1900s society. It depicts a fashionably dressed woman confronting a man about his public behavior toward her. The caption reads: "If your fiancée is your escort in public that you ante-date her. Say in public that you ante-date her... Don't ask of the weather of 'Love, Sausage;' She remembers—but you'll catch it later." The joke targets men's thoughtlessness in romantic relationships—specifically, publicly discussing a woman's age or making casual, demeaning remarks to their fiancées in front of others. The cartoon mocks masculine social insensitivity and warns that such behavior, though apparently forgotten, will be remembered and punished later. It's a commentary on courtship manners and male obliviousness to women's feelings.