Life — September 10, 1891 — page 1: what you’re looking at

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# "A Strain on Friendship" This satirical cartoon illustrates a social comedy about conflicting loyalties among female friends. The dialogue shows Carry asking Sally to be a bridesmaid, but Sally declines because she's "just become engaged to your fiancé" — meaning she's marrying Carry's intended husband. The humor derives from the awkward social situation: Sally claims she cannot be a bridesmaid because she's now engaged to the groom-to-be. Her excuse that this is "too much" to ask reveals the absurdity of the request while simultaneously delivering devastating news. The illustration shows women in period dress (1891) having this tense conversation, likely in a parlor. The joke satirizes both the brittleness of Victorian female friendships and the triangular romantic entanglements that could destroy them, presented through deliberately understated, polite dialogue that masks the social catastrophe.