Judge — May 3, 1902 — page 5: what you’re looking at

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This 1902 Judge magazine page features a portrait sketch by renowned illustrator James Montgomery Flagg, titled "The Real Ideal Thing." It's the first in a "Gallery of Fair Women" series. The accompanying poem satirizes romantic idealization and self-deception in courtship. The male speaker romanticizes a woman's physical beauty (her nose, hair, neck) while convincing himself she reciprocates his feelings through subtle glances. However, the poem's final lines reveal bitter cynicism: he suspects she's ultimately interested only in money, not genuine affection. The satire targets both male delusion about female interest and the transactional nature of Gilded Age romance, where wealthy suitors pursued women who valued financial security over authentic connection. Flagg's elegant sketch contrasts with the poem's disenchanted message about the gap between romantic fantasy and mercenary reality.