Judge — June 2, 1883 — page 1: what you’re looking at

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# "The Rejected-Lover Suicide Mania" This 1883 *Judge* cartoon satirizes a contemporary social phenomenon: a perceived epidemic of suicides by rejected male lovers. The illustration shows a wealthy young man dramatically gesturing toward a woman in an elegant parlor, with the caption quoting her dismissive response: "O, please don't destroy yourself here; it would make such a mess." The satire mocks both the melodramatic desperation of spurned suitors and the apparent casualness with which society—particularly women of means—treated such threats. The cartoon suggests that suicide threats had become so common among rejected lovers that they were now treated as tedious inconveniences rather than genuine tragedies. The joke relies on the woman's practical concern about "mess" rather than emotional concern.